Windowman.......I totally agree with the train of thought that, one can
re-learn what was instilled in them when they were youths.......it really only takes conversations with those we do not understand, to
start to understand from where they came.........but........it takes conversations from
both parties, without judgement from
either..just listening and putting yourself in the others place. However, whatever one has experienced cannot be used to justify bad behaviour within society. As simple as this may sound, it is one of the hardest things one could ever do. But both parties have to realize that we each have our own cross to bear also, so I can't experience what you have and neither can anyone do the same for me. ( I know you already know this, as does everyone else in this board) But, that being said, we can only commit to the
future, and nothing can make up for the
past.YOU ARE
OWED NOTHING!! Just try to explain that to someone who lives by animal-like instincts instead of being taught by good parents like you were, you just as well be arguing with a rock!
I don't really see ucanit's points as being deep, unless you consider
CORE teachings as being deep. I think that is his point, not deep, just all the way to the core. Without those teachings,values,and ethics, nothing will really change. Then society must hold those responsible for their own actions, whether they were taught any better or not. If we allow animalistic behaviour, then we must be willing to build kennels to put them in. I don't care about what color someone is, acceptable behaviour is still required, or you go to jail.......there is
no early out ......there is
no pardon......you
will have "good behaviour" or you will
stay!! You will work for the state that pays for your room and board....you try to escape while fulfilling that obligation to the state, you will be
shot and you will
not be able to sue me or the state for consequences for
your actions!!! Just as it should be in normal life, there is a price for stupidity. If you feel the price is too high, behave! If one feels his price is always too high, explain how that
can change (hand him a
mirror)
It might sound cruel to some, but it still takes guts to kill a rat. It must be done or you will find droppings in your Christmas decorations next year. Even the rat is just doing what it does (as a rat). It is his
nature, it's just
instinct....Man has a
choice, so he
must choose.........just teach him young, there are consequences for
his choice........and only
he will pay, and it will be at
retail...
no discounts, and
no sales!!!!
I'm just so stinking sick of hearing others make excuses for others bad behaviour, trying to justify what makes idiots tick!
Overlooking bad behaviour only justifies, and condones more bad behaviour!! Either teach morals and ethics to your kids or watch them go to jail, and live with the truth that you did a
lousy job as a parent........if you have done all you could do when raising them then it was a bad choice on their part and you should not feel guilty, it is not society's fault, but it is now society's problem.
Have a society that doesn't need jails and prisons......I wonder how much tax money that would save.. maybe enough for everyone to pay for his own health insurance?
